When you’re here, you either know a lot about the world of sexual experimentation, or at least you are curious to broaden your horizons.
Your sex life has the opportunity to have healing, connection, Unleash creative potential, feel deep pleasure and of course – have fun!
You deserve an incredibly fulfilling sex life that will fuel your fire and light your flame.
Exploring the world of Kink, exhibitionism, Orgasm mediation, and three, will all help you push the limits of your sex life.
Another way to bring some extra fun into (or outside of) the bedroom is through sex games.
Sex games are a fun way to overcome boundaries and insecurities you may have with yourself or your partner, and to instill a spirit of inspiration, vibrancy, playfulness, and the breaking of furrows or stalinity into your sex life.
Try these games and watch your sex life Come alive!
Show and tell (but don’t touch)
There is plenty of room for the imagination in this very adult version of the elementary school classic.
Here are the basics of these: You will show – and maybe tell – in front of your partner, but they mustn’t touch you – and maybe yourself – until you give them the magic word. “Now” works great as that magic word.
You can take this as far as you want. Put your partner in the “audience” and you are the center of attention, probably your bed, but who knows.
Get dressed to get dressed. You can make music that really makes you feel, dance sexy, and do a striptease for your sweetheart. Then let them watch you enjoy yourself depending on your comfort.
Tease and curl them and get closer and closer. You can slowly let her feel the warmth of your breath as you get close to saying the magic word.
You will be ready to (literally) explode when you whisper this magical three letter word.
The magic square
This requires a lot of communication, both non-verbally and verbally.
You and your partner each choose a small area of your body. You can also discuss what kind of sensations, such as tingling, tickling, prickliness, you would or would not like to experience.
If you’re having this conversation, feel free to make it sexy and alluring. Words are sexy, make them part of your “foreplay”.
The receiver is then blindfolded, and if a timer is set, the transmitter only touches the specified “magic square” for the duration of the timer. We recommend having this magical square outside of the genitals and in a seemingly more inconspicuous place such as the stomach, thighs or cleavage.
This game allows you to be present both in the moment and in the feeling of giving or receiving without the pressure to rush things.
The recipient can actively communicate what they are doing and what they are not doing, be it with full words and sentences or simple moans and grunts. The giver can endeavor to pick up on his partner’s non-verbal cues and tune in to the intricacies of his pleasure while in a state of giving.
You can take turns as often as you like, switch between giver and receiver, and explore new areas and sensations.
Guess this object
This is somewhat similar to the last game in terms of focusing on tactile sensations, but with a new twist.
Of course, first discuss in advance whether any area of the body or sensation is forbidden.
Then the receiver gets comfortable and you guessed it – blindfolded – while the transmitter digs around a few items around the house.
When the recipient is ready, the giver moves the object in a motion that appears tempting on the recipient’s body.
The recipient then tries to guess what the object is.
Get creative here, reach into the refrigerator, in your garden (be careful with allergies), in your sex toy box, in office supplies, really anything, as long as it is classified as physically safe and comfortable by the recipient.
A lover’s lens
Always wanted to be someone’s creative muse? Here is your chance.
Whether or not you and your partner feel they have creative skills, now is the time to chant “Draw me like one of your French girls!” to the Titanic.
Set a sexy scene with curtains, flowers, crystals, grapes, go out in luxury or just keep it in nature.
Now do a pose while your partner captures your beauty through their eyes. Of course, this doesn’t just have to be when drawing. You can use watercolors, pencils, clay, and collages, and even make a sculpture out of bits and pieces that they find around the house.
Remember, the point is not to make it look exactly like the muse, but rather to allow the partner to capture their essence – through a lover’s lens.
While this doesn’t seem like a sex game, there is plenty of room to add an x-rated twist to the mix. Do this activity with no clothes on and have them create art around your ahem * luscious * pieces. To be seen by a lover this way opens the ground for a wild ride.
Let go of your confidence in your creative abilities. This is about seeing and honoring the beauty and energy of the muse.
Remember, when it comes to sex games, there are only winners, not losers. Take this guide for inspiration to create your own games by yourself or with a partner. Continue to play!